You’re seeing gift-giving quantitatively instead of qualitatively
If you’re simply trying to give them as much now as you can, it probably won’t be as helpful in the long run. Instead, it’s probably better to think qualitatively, and give what will improve their lives.
“Instead of giving gifts, you might want to just hold onto your assets,” says Pak.
“It’s not always black and white,” he says, since everyone’s financial situation is different. While there’s no magic number for the amount you should give, the fact that you’ll still need funds to live on is the same for everyone.